Originally Answered: Advice on my relationship plz?
I dont think you should let go until he gives you a reason to let go. Him "changing" his style for her is a big warning flag of course, but perhaps thats the motivation you need to just do something. I know jobs are tough (I'm having a hard time finding one thats worth it myself), but if you really stay home all day, then learn a skill that WILL get you employed. Nothing is impossible now on the internet if you look hard enough. Or you can go back to school in a area that definitely will hire (like medical field).
My mom came from overseas with practically nothing, married some guy, had 2 kids and had to divorce this alcoholic, abusive, gambler when we were like 5 or 6 years old. She had to pay rent & support two kids working on less than minimum wage as a seamstress in a factory. At nighttime, she studied nursing in the apartment so she could have a better job, but I'll always remember how poor we were. One particular night, for dinner we had white rice and sauce, thats it. She was crying and apologizing to us cause there was nothing in the fridge.
After a while, she became a LPN(licensed practical nurse), which makes about $40k now, and then shortly after she became a RN(registered nurse)which makes $60k+ depending on field. I think its been 19 years now, and it makes sense since I'm 25, and she owns a multifamily building in nyc. Her assets are probably close to 1.3 million if she sold everything including stocks she owns....and it all started because she wanted a better life for herself and her kids. So maybe this will motivate you to do something in your spare time, to be better for yourself and your kid, not for the guy...just in case anything does happen. Happy mothers day.