Topic: Homework routine schedule for home
June 26, 2019 / By Cari Question:
I know it's long, but I just want to be as detailed and informative as I can. Guys please read if you have the time, I need help. Thank you.To start off I literally don't know what's wrong with me, and I'm fourteen and a freshman in High School. Anyways, This past month, which is around like three weeks, I've been so like out of the ordinary. I'm always extra tired,and sleepy! I get around to six,seven,or,eight hours of sleep each night. Then i take like a two hour nap everyday when I get home from school too! It's crazy, but like I get home from school I eat, do my homework, and sleep. Then wake up go on the computer or something,take shower, then go to bed. I mean like I'm always tired. I never have any energy. I use to remember that at school I used to be very hyper,energetic,and talkative. Now I'm quite quiet, less sociable, and unusual from the past. I'm never in the mood to do anything. I'm either tired,lazy,or sleepy. I'm not overweight or anything. Just "normal", Also, on the other hand my life is like I don't have a life. Ever since school started I haven't gone out or anything. I mean like I talk to my friends at school and stuff,and when get home it's just me. I don't talk to my friends on the phone. May be like once in a while or so fro like fifteen minutes,and I text every once and there. I use to be so sociable, but now I'm quite the opposite. I'm so anti-social now. Part of it is my parent's fault also, They never let me do anything or go anywhere with my friends. Like i think I'm going through depression or something I'm scared. Is something wrong with me? I use to get so mad when they didn't let me go out. but now i really don't care. It's not like i want to go out anyways. Like i don't even want to keep in contact with my friends. I just want to have friends at school and when i get home, just to be by myself. I have no boyfriend. I never had a boyfriend., and i had times before when I felt like dying. Also, when somethings wrong with me I have no one to talk to about it. I don't have a boyfriend anymore, and I can never talk to my parents about my life. The only person that I can talk to is my cousin. But she lives in a different state, and it's hard talking to her, and it's hard for her to understand what's going on. I also have another part of my life where I don't know if I really love my dad or not.I mean like the things that he did just disgusts me. The rest of my family seems to be fine, but not me. Like I resent him so much. I'm the oldest and I have a younger sister who is three years younger than me and i talk to her, but ever since growing up we just don't talk to each other like that you know. We're close, sure we are! But you know, it's just we don't talk about those "things". Sometimes I don't even care. I use to get straight A's and now I'm so disappointed in myself because I've been getting B's and C's. I don't know what to do anymore. What's wrong with me? Why am I always tired,sleepy.and sad. I use to be so happy and cheerful about waking up in the morning and getting dressed up. Now I don't even care. I just wake up late and tie my hair up, jeans, and a sweater. Am I like going through depression. Please help me answer these questions. Please don't be a critic and mean about this. I just want some of your opinions and answers. Thank you so much! This was my last resort, I don't have anybody else to go to. Thank you so much.
Is it called bi-polar? BUt like i get crazy and mad at the smallest things. LIke I''m a neat freak! LIke when I do laundry and a sock drops I get crazybecause it touched the floor which is dirty. I don't know, I'm weird I guess. That's what poeple tell me. They always eitheer call me fat,ugly, or weird, Or they use to call me that. Also, when my usual schedule or routine for each day don't go right,well, or smoothly I get really pissed off and angry. I shut myself down and yell at everypne. That's when I tend to be just by myself. I get mad really easy but just only arounf my family. That is alos true, I'm always in my room, I don't like going out in the living room because there's always problems that will get started an dI odn't feel comfortable. So I barely go outside except for school, not like my parents would let me go anymore, but it's not like I have any friends anymore to go out with. But thank you so far for the great answers. Thank you so much!
Is it called bi-polar? But like i get crazy and mad at the smallest things. Like I''m a neat freak! Like when I do laundry and a sock drops I get crazy because it touched the floor which is dirty. I don't know, I'm weird I guess. That's what poeple tell me. They always eitheer call me fat,ugly, or weird, Or they use to call me that. Also, when my usual schedule or routine for each day don't go right,well, or smoothly I get really pissed off and angry. I shut myself down and yell at everyone. That's when I tend to be just by myself. I get mad really easy but just only around my family. That is also true, I'm always in my room, I don't like going out in the living room because there's always problems that will get started and I don't feel comfortable. So I barely go outside except for school, not like my parents would let me go anymore, but it's not like I have any friends anymore to go out with. But thank you so far for the great answers. Thank you so much!
I'm a catholic, I go to church every Sunday. BUt lately I just stopped beliveing in God too. LIke Should I belive or should I not? I don't know I'm confused. I odn't know what's wrong with me.
I'm a catholic, I go to church every Sunday. But lately I just stopped believing in God too. Like Should I believe or should I not? I don't know I'm confused. I don't know what's wrong with me.
Allaric | 5 days ago
Many people go through what you described in your novel above. A lot of people, myself included, have SAD (seasonal affective disorder, not to be confused with schizo-affective disorder). When days become shorter, and darkness lengthens, our bodies lack sunlight. Sunlight is imperative for Vitamin D to be absorbed into our body. Without Vitamin D, our bodies actually become depressed. Lots of people who are indoors mostly suffer from this especially. I work in an office with no windows, and live in a basement suite. Little sunlight. To avoid SAD, I turn on the lights right away in the morning, and try to stay outdoors as much as possible. Helps a lot. Just put yourself out there, and try to work through it. The worst is already over, now just stand firmly on your own 2 feet.
OK, before getting into your specifics, let's establish a bit of information about 14 yr olds, in high school.
-- 10 hrs of sleep per night or more is recommended and considered "normal".
-- The higher a person's stress level, the greater the amount of sleep in order to compensate.
-- The body of a teen is going through constant change in hormones, physical, mental and emotional growth & social concerns. Constant change is considered "normal" for this age group.
-- Every high school has a designated adult who is available for students to talk with. Even rural schools do this. Often in the small High Schools one of the teachers or the Principal act as the
School Counselor. - Ask for some time to speak with the Counselor alone.
I am unsure how to interpret your wording and emotional response with your Dad. You said---- "I also have another part of my life where I don't know if I really love my dad or not.I mean like the things that he did just disgusts me. The rest of my family seems to be fine, but not me. Like I resent him so much. I'm the oldest..."
-- If you mean that you don't appreciate him like you used to, that could be a normal change in the father-daughter-teen development, where you are feeling more critical at this time.
-- If you mean he purposes to disgust you (or other family members) through his speech or misbehavior (cussing, anger, drinking, selfishness, placing new limits on your freedom...etc.) Those may be issues that he infact needs to address in his own life and emotional development. Placing new limits on your freedom can come because he suddenly realizes that you are becoming a woman and he fears that the guys your age may treat you disrespectfully.
-- But, if you mean that your dad has spoken or acted toward you in a sexual way.........there is a bigger problem.........this is damaging to you and how you think of yourself. He must be stopped. He must be reported. And he must not be allowed to do the same with your younger sister. If he is acting toward you in a sexual way - whether it disgusts you or not - whether he tells you to keep it a secret or not..............Telling a trusted adult outside your family is absolutely necessary! You are only 14. And you deserve to be protected in your home and by the people who love you.
-- Ask your mom to take you to the Dr. Tell her that you are concerned that you may have something physically wrong, listing the changes mood swings - sleepiness - tiredness - lack of interest in school and friends and grades - isolation -"i think I'm going through depression or something I'm scared."- and the most important symptom you list --
"and i had times before when I felt like dying" - and also deterioration of your relationship with your Dad.
--------some of these are personal problems, some are social, some physical or emotional.........when added together they form a pattern that looks much like depression.........a TREATABLE ILLNESS.
Your Dr needs to hear this from you, whether you write it or say it.
You are old enough to speak with your Dr alone.
Do speak with a trusted adult or School Counselor. They will do what they can to help you get the help you need. You'll feel less alone.
And, one more thing - find a group of teens to hang out with - safely - adult supervised. The best choice I have seen is a Church Youth Group. There is usually music, food, laughter, and caring adults who listen. This is a safe place to be away from home that your parents' wouldn't mind you participating there.
Hey wats up girl i understand what ur going through...the first thing i want to say is you can get TOO MUCH sleep...if you sleep too much it will make you feel tired too...so just try and sleep 7 to 8 hours dont take a nap too lol! another thing is your are bored out of ur mind! thats why you could be sleeping so much...
you should get in volved with some clubs at school sports or somthing...i mean the debate team anything that will give you something to do...ur parents sholdnt object to that i hope...you could be going through a little depression because you are so bored...so number one find somehting to do after school...stop sleeping sooo much...talk to ur parents and tell them what is going on and how you feel and what you need you need to have them compromise with you...not always easy but you have to try...
Start making yourslef look cute take some "ME" time dont be all bummy...i mean you dont have to put a whole lot of effort into it but it will make you fell better about urself...do someting with ur hair and dress cute do ur nails i mean pamper urself i mean little things...
if ur a spiritual person pray and ask God to help you better yet if ur not a spirtitual person get into the spirit pray, join a youth church group which is always great and talk to other teens going through what ur going through and get involved in the church...I wish you the best of luck and hope it helped at least a little
Laziness occur due to lazy activities. Here in your daily life there is no extra-curricular activities like playing outdoor games etc.etc.. Try those activities those need some energy.
God has provide us a mouth to speak, eye to see and metal capacity to think. In this world every one use it, someone in good manner and someone in bad manner means all the people are not equal. Avoid the bad and accepting the good is the best way.
If you don't have best friend make one. As you told that your family do not allow you to go elsewhere from home, invite your friends.