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I'm 19 - Is my sister right to tell my family when I do something wrong?

I'm 19 - Is my sister right to tell my family when I do something wrong? Topic: Family tales the sisters
June 26, 2019 / By Carlyle
Question: So I'm out of the house and rent a place with my sister and another girl with a kid. Whenever I do something wrong (ex. if I go to a party, if my boyfriend stays over, etc.) my sister will call my mom and tell her, who then calls and lectures me about my poor life choices. And then proceeds to scream and call me names. Personally, I don't think its any of their business what I do. I MAYBE drink once a month, and I never drive. If I want my boyfriend over, I should be able to have him over. What do you guys think?
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Allen Allen | 8 days ago
You are in the right. You are independent, what you do is you're business. I would do one of 3 things. Either find some deep dirt on your sister and use it against her and tell her that if she keeps telling you're mom you're private life, youre going to tell mom what shes been doing. that should shut her up. if your sister is a hermit, well, threaten that you'll have to find another place without her company if she can't be a mature adult and not tattle tale...or just start looking for places on your own without a word, when your lease is up and she wonders why your not staying with her then you can explain. good luck
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Allen Originally Answered: I'm 19 - Is my sister right to tell my family when I do something wrong?
You are in the right. You are independent, what you do is you're business. I would do one of 3 things. Either find some deep dirt on your sister and use it against her and tell her that if she keeps telling you're mom you're private life, youre going to tell mom what shes been doing. that should shut her up. if your sister is a hermit, well, threaten that you'll have to find another place without her company if she can't be a mature adult and not tattle tale...or just start looking for places on your own without a word, when your lease is up and she wonders why your not staying with her then you can explain. good luck

Tawny Tawny
Honestly, within reason it's alright - like if you were out till maybe 3am and proceeded to be loud and rude. However, I dont think that its any of their business. I think you should talk to your sister about it. Let her know that its your life, and if you absolutely must, then make some rules/guidelines.... But I agree, its not really any of their business....
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Robin Robin
you are paying your own bills, and living independantly form your parents what you do is your business your sister is 100% wrong here look to move you are still under your family where you are sharing with someone who isnt family will be much better
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Modesty Modesty
Tell your mother some lies about your sister, why care, she dies not care about you. If your sister says it was lies, just say yes why not who cares.
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Modesty Originally Answered: Who was wrong? (Long story about a family problem)?
You weren't wrong. Your parents knew you couldn't sleep through it and didn't care, it's not right for parents to keep their kids up till one in the morning when they have school the next day.

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