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I caught my 12 year old daughter kissing a boy?

I caught my 12 year old daughter kissing a boy? Topic: Homework for 10 year olds
June 19, 2019 / By Maleah
Question: Okay so I have a 12 year old daughter (she's my only child), and we have quite a lot of money, live in a big house, and she is so spoiled and gets everything she wants. She's a thin, beautiful, curly blonde haired blue-eyed straight A student, and like I said, gets EVERYTHING she wants. (I don't do this, my husband does), She can roam around our neighborhood and has all the freedom in the world, but the only rule was she had to wait until she was 14 to start dating and kissing boys. She's never defied me before, but I was on my way home from work, I saw her a few blocks away from the neighborhood (she walks with her friends to and from school) and she was making out with this boy that looked around 14-15, but I only saw him from a distance. It would've probably been okay if it was just a little peck on the lips or cheek, but he was touching her sexually and they were at it for probably a minute or so. (I was stopped at a light). I don't think my daughter saw me, but I'm at home now and she is in her bedroom doing homework, but I don't know how to confront her. Should I take her walking priviliges away and just have her take the bus? Should I take her Minature Pig away from her? (I mean just keep it in our bedroom and not let her interact with it) Or should I just leave it alone, because I know I had my first kiss at 12 and lost my virginity (which I am not proud of) at 15? Please help, thanks! 10 points!
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Kim Kim | 7 days ago
I think she may do that because she thinks she knows how ur gonna feel about it ad she likes the rebellious feeling. So u should go up in her room and tell her that you saw her and the boy. If she completely freaks out just tell her your not mad you just have a few questions. like whats his name? how old he is? how long have you been dating? And you could even be the "cool" mom add tell her if shes dating shes got to go places and show him off. Take them places, but be sure to supervise and if she knows its ok she may be more cautious and mature with guys
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Kim Originally Answered: I caught my 12 year old daughter kissing a boy?
I think she may do that because she thinks she knows how ur gonna feel about it ad she likes the rebellious feeling. So u should go up in her room and tell her that you saw her and the boy. If she completely freaks out just tell her your not mad you just have a few questions. like whats his name? how old he is? how long have you been dating? And you could even be the "cool" mom add tell her if shes dating shes got to go places and show him off. Take them places, but be sure to supervise and if she knows its ok she may be more cautious and mature with guys

Janel Janel
For the best answers, search on this site https://shorturl.im/oEc3w I wouldn't punish her at all. I'm sure you were shocked but remember it's normal. If you haven't already I would approach the subject of sex and boys very casually. You don't want to bombard her with questions. In general conversation maybe while your out for a mother-daughter day bring up the sex topic but not that particular incident. You want her to trust you and feel like she can talk openly to you. You should also trust her (unless she's proven she can't be trusted). I'm sure she knows you love her so just make sure your available to her. If you yell, scream, or accuse she is likely to close herself off to you. Good communication is key. As far as telling her dad...I don't know if it's necessary over a kiss. I don't believe in hiding things from my spouse but some things are better not said. I try to decide whether or not it's truly pertinent and whether or not it might cause more trouble than it is worth. I hope I have helped some.
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Ericka Ericka
I am 13 years old and it is normal for a child to have a first kiss from age 12-14. Just cause she kissed a boy does not mean she will have sex. Don't do anything and see what happens. If you notice she is doing it again or she is wearing short short and tight shirts maybe talk to her about becoming more pure. Maybe it was just a one time thing and everything will be okay/
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Adamina Adamina
In this generation, the time to start kissing has come to about 12-14. Really it's normal. When I was in 4th grade my friend was already kissing. And in 8th grade, I already knew 3 girls who lost their virginity! Besides, she's just a kid and it IS the first time she defiled you, so please don't be to harsh. Ask her side of the story, talk it out, and if not satisfied, ground her for a few days.
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Adamina Originally Answered: What can I do to help my 15 year old daughter?
If they aren't having sex: It is legal to date as long as they are not having any form of sexual contact. Is she keeping up with her studies? Attending school? Acting appropriately other than that? If he's not causing her to act badly, I don't see what the problem is. I dated a 19 yr old when I was 14 and 15. He helped me with homework, repeatedly convinced me not to skip school, encouraged me to do well in school and made me realize that while I may not always agree with my parents they do love me and have my best interest at heart. Age of consent is 16 for sex and 18 for anal sex in Australia. So, unless they are having sex (and will admit to it) nothing illegal is going on. http://www.ageofconsent.com/australia.ht...

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