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My Mom is acting Psycho! Lately my mom's been getting meaner and meaner.?

My Mom is acting Psycho! Lately my mom's been getting meaner and meaner.? Topic: No face no case shirts
June 20, 2019 / By Eileen
Question: My mom accused me of losing her jean jacket, even though I gave it to her like a week ago so obviously she lost it, and then I asked my brother to defend me, and he just sat there like an idiot. He's also really annoying because he's older than me, I'm the youngest child and I'm a girl yet HE's the really spoiled one (I say this because most people assume that just because I'm a girl and the youngest I must be spoiled). I always get butt whoopins and it's only because my mom is 24/7 PMSing. Once I wasn't good at playing tennis and she thought I was playing bad on purpose, so she grabs me by the front of my shirt like those bullies on TV then shoves me, slaps me really hard and just yells. I was 12 when that happened. And whenever my dad asks about like a mark on my face or something, or a fight between us, she just says "Oh im soooo sorry, I'm on my period blablabla" and then everyone else just forgives her for turning into a demon over a little period. Seriously, I have like constant pain from what might be SCA and you don't see me turning into a monster. I was in the car today with my dad and my older brother, and I was asking my mom if I could please have a little money for pants, and she goes crazy on me! She was like "You can buy your own pants youre 14 why dont you just move out!!!!" she was yelling and hissing like a rabid animal. I would understand having to buy my own pants if I already had a good amount of clothes and was just wasting money on the "latest trends" and such, but I only have one pair of jeans and a pair of short shorts and people make fun of me for wearing the same pants all the time. The worst thing is that no one else in my family defends me. Please help I feel like I was a mistake, if my mom wanted me, you'd think she would be nice enough to buy me more than 2 pairs of pants, then tell me to move out. It just hurts especially because I'm working so hard to save money up for college, and life after I move out. Am I in the wrong or is she?
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Chelsey Chelsey | 2 days ago
SHE is the one with the problem, not you. The next time your dad asks you about a mark, tell him that she hit you and has been acting very mean lately. He might take you away from her for a while and buy you pants while your with him. In some cases, your father could be rewarded custody of you in a court of law. Your mom has no right to act so violently. You have a right to protect yourself. If you think she might hurt you badly, you need to call 911 or there is a number in the phone book for violence and abuse. They will take you away from her, but it would be better then getting beaten for no reason at all. I hope things work out for you dear!
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Chelsey Originally Answered: My Mom is acting Psycho! Lately my mom's been getting meaner and meaner.?
SHE is the one with the problem, not you. The next time your dad asks you about a mark, tell him that she hit you and has been acting very mean lately. He might take you away from her for a while and buy you pants while your with him. In some cases, your father could be rewarded custody of you in a court of law. Your mom has no right to act so violently. You have a right to protect yourself. If you think she might hurt you badly, you need to call 911 or there is a number in the phone book for violence and abuse. They will take you away from her, but it would be better then getting beaten for no reason at all. I hope things work out for you dear!
Chelsey Originally Answered: My Mom is acting Psycho! Lately my mom's been getting meaner and meaner.?
I've felt the same way, but now that I'm an adult and in college, I only see my family during summer and other holidays. Plus, they're a little nicer every time I come back.

Aryana Aryana
I've felt the same way, but now that I'm an adult and in college, I only see my family during summer and other holidays. Plus, they're a little nicer every time I come back.
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Aryana Originally Answered: Help! My mom is psycho??
One thing that will save your butt in the long run, is keeping a list of the "bad things" that she does, and when she does them. Example: If your mother comes over and starts one of her rants about your boyfriend, or smokes around your child, says things about you, etc. Write down what she did, what she said, time and place and the date. One thing that I have learned when people threaten you with court is to have enough evidence to support your case, My mother threatened to take me to court over my children, because I told her that I didn't want her around them, so I kept a log sheet of every time she called me talking crap, or things she did around the kids. (this was my advice from my lawyer!) SO KEEP TRACK OF EVERYTHING. I GUARANTEE YOU IT WILL HELP YOU IN COURT.
Aryana Originally Answered: Help! My mom is psycho??
Yeah, in some way, shape or form it is verbal abuse. But your problem is bigger than that. If I'm reading this correctly, you don't want your mom around your son b/c of her smoking/drinking/smell or some combination of the 3. As this baby's mother, you have the right to decide, at this stage, who's apart of his life and who's not. If you feel you need to 'protect' him from her so to speak, then do so. My question is, is she that bad that she can't see her grandbaby? Obviously so. From my experience Grandma's live for the moment to become Grandma's. Yes, they take over, change your rules, undermind your authority,etc. But our kids are their revenge! They love those kids because they are getting ready to put us through all the crap we put them through! Maybe she doesn't fit the bill. Anyway, unless she's taking you to court for visitation, I wouldn't worry about it. If you're fit to take care of your babies and the state has no reason to remove them, let her vent all she wants. If she decided you're no longer her daughter, don't contact her. Just be there when SHE grows up and realizes what a huge mistake she made. Right now, your attention should be focused on your baby anyway. She's had a whole lifetime to be a pain in the butt, but he's only had 2 months to enjoy his mommy. She'll get over it when she realizes how much of his life she's losing with her foolishness. P.S. Happy Belated Mother's Day!

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