Topic: Funny suitcase stories
June 20, 2019 / By Amos Question:
the main question is: Would it (hypothetically, since I'll be 40 before I get a boyfriend) be weird if we dated?
The SECOND question is: Should I approach him on the matter or is that too weird for casual conversation?
Long story short: I can't talk to guys, god forbid, very attractive ones. I've taken to staring at a gorgeous one in maths and the first time I spoke with him was while passing out papers to ask his name and then his name reminded me of someone of the same name I knew when I was about 4, who I remember hitting me with a suitcase, whose sister was best friends with my sister, and whose family took my sister and i apple picking, etc.
I thought that was funny so I told him his name reminds me of a kid who hit me with a suitcase. and he laughed, and that was the last thing I've said.
But I dismissed that as just a funny coincidence and continue liking his face. Alot. but last night, form my mom I find that no, it's not a coincidence, he IS that guy. He has been in my house. And hit me with a suitcase. And I found a really awkward home video of his sister. Also, his family owns sonic. Just a little, fact there, they're rich. My mom told me this. But now I feel really weird, like maybe I know too much about someone I don't know, like a stalker, and if maybe this is a reason to talk to him, or is it a reason to NOT talk to him?
By the way, I REALLY LIKE TELLING PEOPLE ABOUT THIS
I'm not holding anything against him! :)
I wasn't even upset EVER.
Tony | 10 days ago
It wouldn't be weird if you guys dated at all, in fact I think it would be kinda cute, since your first encounter with each other was rather funny when you think about it. Plus you were only 4 years old, you can't expect others to be accountable for what they do at the age of 4, just like you wouldn't want to be held accountable for anything you did. So if you do bring it up again, all I would say on the matter is to tell him about how you found out that it was really him that did it and you found it kinda funny any ironic that you would meet again after all these years. Because he obviously doesn't remember it or else he would have said he recalled hitting a girl with a suitcase himself when you had first brought it up.
Uh, and he was how old?
Holding something against him that he did when he was a little kid seems silly.