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Girls here's the whole story, please give me good advice?

Girls here's the whole story, please give me good advice? Topic: The sisters club pictures
June 19, 2019 / By Anthia
Question: So we were together for six years. I was 16 she was 18 (approx) and it was like a romance story out of a book, we use to spend hours on the phone and well you know the love was there. We always spoke about how we wanted to get married, what we would name our kids, and so on. However, her parents did not like me much (at all). The tough part is im not a bad person her parents new that i am a university student, i have a decent job i dress pretty good and i go to church where i am a musician. BUT HER MOM did not like me. Anyways, then when i enlisted in the Army things really got bad. While i was at basic she met the other guy. When i found out i cried and went through the whole deal you know. So, she told him we were together so long that she decided she would continue with me. But, i found out she kept looking for him, and then out of the blue she began telling me to leave her alone, she then began to bring things from the past to paint a bad boyfriend picture of me, and after crying and going through the whole deal, i then told her. "This is the last time i call you or look for you," and so i did. I later found out she began a relationship with the guy, he would go to her house everyday, be alone with her in his house and crap like that. So, months passed by and as i found a way to cure the pain i began to party, i went to alot of clubs met alot of girls ten times better looking than her and stuff like that, and so the months went by. Now out of the blue my nephew called me and told me she went looking for me crying and sobbing to my older sister who gave her my number, so she called me a couple of days later, i hung up. She called back and left a song i use to sing to her on my answer machine. What should i do?
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Zachary Zachary | 8 days ago
aww im sorry sweetie...i mean as much as it may hurt u have to leave her alone she didnt deserve u...just hang in there it will get better and u can talk to me if u like i can be a good friend
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Zachary Originally Answered: PLEASE give me some ADVICE. (LONG STORY!) 10 points?
I think she's a pathological liar it sound like she is so full of drama. From what you write it would just be a waste of time to keep the faith. You sound like a nice guy so just give yourself time to get over her then someone who will be worth it will come along then you'll see what love really is. Keep your head up.
Zachary Originally Answered: PLEASE give me some ADVICE. (LONG STORY!) 10 points?
I think that James is just trying to heal from all the mistakes and heartache that he has had with his wife he is now separated from. I have never been divorced (I am currently married) but can only guess that there must be a lot of regret and remorse about why it didn't work out the way you thought it would when you said your marriage vows. Even if he thought that the transition from being married to being single would be an easy one and that dating again would be easy, I'm sure he's realizing now that he needs time to heal. And this is very smart of him. If you two did work out in the future, would you really want all his baggage from this relationship hanging around? He needs to be alone and figure out himself first before moving forward with anyone else. And as far as this other woman goes, I wouldn't take it for much. She is probably someone that he has known for a long time and maybe had a crush on at some point. He probably has been hanging out with her to keep him company. They probably slept together and now he is really realizing that being with someone else right now just doesn't feel right in his heart. Give him time to heal. It could take a long time. But if you really want to be with him, then you will give him the space he needs. When he is ready, he'll come back. As far as your current boyfriend, you should give him the respect and honesty he deserves. Give him your all or let him go. It is only fair to him. And when he finds out about you and James, things won't ever be the same again. It would be better to let him go without him knowing the truth, then him hating women for the rest of his life after finding out that you cheated.
Zachary Originally Answered: PLEASE give me some ADVICE. (LONG STORY!) 10 points?
ok there are a few different situations that she could be in right now.. 1- People start liking people from online because they have no one else. But when they meet someone in real life then they will fall for the "real" person and forget about the "online" person. Then if they want to forget the online person but the online person keeps sending them stuff then they will probably start being mean. 2- She could be embarrassed to say "i met this guy i really like ONLINE". People at my school would think i was a freak or just desperate to find a guy online. So she could be embarrassed thats all. 3- Her parents probably found out and would get mad at her for meeting someone online. So she had to make up that story about meeting you and hanging out with you. And maybe her parents told her not to talk to you so that's why she said those things. And you getting mad at her probably hurt her because she can't help it. It could be one of those reasons. You never know. That's why it's better to meet people in real life because it will be hard for you to find out because you knew her from online and never hung out you know?

Shiloh Shiloh
wow that sucks...im sorry but i would say to just move on...she'll probably come crawling back to u when the new guy does her wrong
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Shiloh Originally Answered: Anyone willing to read my long story, and give me some advice?
heey hunn, well that does sound like a pretty heartbreaking situation especially since you guys are family and used to be sooo close! honestly my advice to you would be to try and talk to your cousin, just straight up ask her if she's mad at you or if she hates you. I mean think of it this way, what if she doesn't hate you..maybe she's thinking the same thing you are, maybe she thinks you hate her cause your not talking to her. So don't let it go on, just talk to her. Especially if her life is going badly right now, she probably really would like someone to talk to since her mother doesn't sound exactly like the "understanding" kind of person lol. I hope your relationship with your cousin will get better, good luck!!
Shiloh Originally Answered: Anyone willing to read my long story, and give me some advice?
Write to her. Tell her what you think about your relationships. Offer her help if she still wants to be friends. She needs someone to help her out. May be she will be friends with you as before. But don't mess up your relationship this time.

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