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How to tell my best friend that I am gay?

How to tell my best friend that I am gay? Topic: Write letter to your friend telling him
July 18, 2019 / By Fortune
Question: I am 15 and so is my friend, we are both male and I have a huge crush on him. I am not sure if he is gay. I want to tell him i'm gay but i'm not sure how he will react so is there is a way of hinting to him that i'm gay?
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Dani Dani | 2 days ago
Hey :) Firstly, find out his reaction to homosexuality. If hes against homosexuals, then you really dont want to tell him your gay just yet. But if hes ok with it, itll boost your confidence into telling him :) Find out by saying that one of your friends has recently come out as gay or something, and see what his reaction is to that. If hes ok with hearing about that, then you could even ask him if hes ever had any gay thoughts or something. If you dont want to tell him your gay to his face, then why not write him a letter telling him your true sexuality? If hes a true friend anyway im sure he'll be fine with it, and support you :) I hope this helped, and good luck :) <3
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Dani Originally Answered: What would you do if your best friend did this to you?
No, don;t be mad. Accept it gracefully then throw it away if necessary or regift. Also, use the stationary to write back to her at the very least and she'll feel like you are enjoying stuff. finshaggy.blogspot.com

Bonita Bonita
Me and my best friend have said we were gay many times but I'm not sure if he's joking or not, I'm pretty sure he is gay. If you tell him your gay, it would probably give him courage and he would probably tell you about his sexuality aswell. Try and be serious, if he doesn't say anything say something like have you ever thought about being with a guy and take it from there. But yeah as said before, find out about his feelings about homosexuals first.
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Alannah Alannah
I think you should know what does he think about gay people? many people react very bad when they have a gay friend and they know that gay friend is in love with them.. because they start to be afraid.. I tell you this because people don't like gay people in some ways.
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Trenton Trenton
i think you should take it one step at a time. first tell you that you are gay. then if he's ok with it, gradually let him know that you like him. I once had a friend who told me that she loves me, and i'm sorry to say, it totally freak me out because I'm not gay. You just don't dump it all at once on somebody u no? gotta take it step by step
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Reg Reg
If your friend reacts badly,then he's not really your friend...I wish i had a gay friend!! anyway. You should tell him,I'm pretty sure he'll understand..You can take it slow,tell him your gay,and if he reacts like ohh ok,kool.. then you should tell him you like him,If hes not gay,yeah its going to be akward..but it shouldnt matter if your gay... I would tell em! Good luck.. <3 =]
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Reg Originally Answered: How do I tell my best friend I like him? HELP?
Well, IM is not a great idea so cross that off the list. In person is your best bet. You sit with him at lunch? Tell him at lunch. Or after school. Ask him to take a walk and talk about it. I think that would be cute, :] If you have a certain place that you hang out a lot you can go there too. Just find somewhere where you can be comfortable and that there aren't people everywhere. And then once you find your spot just tell him! Tell him you've been friends for a long time and you are developing some really great feelings for him and that you want to know how he feels. Just tell him how you feel! Simple as that! Good Luck! :]]

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