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I can't to to my mother. I have no one to talk to.?

I can't to to my mother. I have no one to talk to.? Topic: I hate writing papers in college
July 17, 2019 / By Angus
Question: I don't have a father. I can't talk to my mother. I feel like she doesn't care about me. And I have no one at all to talk to. I have so many issues (depression, eating disorders) and I feel suicidal quite a lot. I don't go to school, I'm currently in between school and college. I feel like there's never the option to talk to her. I saw a therapist for a while but I stopped after a few months (It was too expensive) I get upset but I don't tell anyone. My sister heard me and told my mum and my mum just yelled and said I was selfish. I hate myself so much.A huge part of me wants to die. I have done for a long time now. I pray that God can take me, instead of taking the people who don't deserve to die. I feel so selfish. Please don't be mean to me. If you are thinking about making mean comments, please don't answer. Thank you all so much. It's so nice not to be judged.
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Tracee Tracee | 2 days ago
i know how you feel, my parents dont ever listen to what i have to say. i had been cutting for 4 years and they just found out and did nothing about it. but i have not cut in 14 days :) do you have a friend or someone close to you that you can just sit down and talk to. if i dont have anyone to talk to, i write all my problems down and when im finished i rip the paper up in a million pieces. i'll listen if you ever want to vent. www.myspace.com/tragedy_love_
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Tracee Originally Answered: I can't to to my mother. I have no one to talk to.?
i know how you feel, my parents dont ever listen to what i have to say. i had been cutting for 4 years and they just found out and did nothing about it. but i have not cut in 14 days :) do you have a friend or someone close to you that you can just sit down and talk to. if i dont have anyone to talk to, i write all my problems down and when im finished i rip the paper up in a million pieces. i'll listen if you ever want to vent. www.myspace.com/tragedy_love_

Sabryna Sabryna
1. Try Byron Katie. Her worksheets are on her website and her videos are on youtube. This would be my highest recommendation. Search youtube for "Byron Katie mother" for a specific dialogue to help with your situation. 2. Read "Happiness is a Choice" by Barry Neils Kauffman. Here is a link about a girl who was had an eating disorder, was cutting, suicidal and came out of her depression. http://www.option.org/custom:single,595 3. Try reading Patrick Holford's "Low GL diet" - blood sugar imbalances can cause havoc with your body and symptoms include depression, mood swings, tiredness, drowsiness after eating, cravings for sweet foods, headaches, heart palpitations, anxiety, irritability, agrressive outbursts, crying spells, excessive sweating, dizziness and trembling. 4. Keep two journals. One for writing down all your feelings, this is really good for clearing out your anxieties and getting all your war onto paper, you can delete it straight after if you need to, it's just good to really see your stressful thinking. And the other can be your gratitude journal - write down all the things you are grateful for that happened today. 5. If you get panic attacks, sign up for the free emails on the panicaway website. 6. Read "The Four Agreements" by Don Miguel Ruiz. He discusses what he calls the mitote - the thousand voices in your head that can cause so much fear and confusion in all of us. He teaches how to deal with these images, voices and fears. Love and light. xxx
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Nettie Nettie
Don't hurt yourself. God loves you. If you pray, try to think positive --- that God can help you live your life better. If you are a Christian, know that Christianity is about faith for sure, a trust, but with love too. This takes a maturity. This isn't just a head thing, a knowing, but also a heart thing -- a willingness to love and commit to God eternally. The most important factors I'm learning are faith, love, peace, and meekness, plus obedience. God is our Creator, all-knowing, all-powerful, eternal, holy, love. Mostly, God is love and He wants us to be love too and become like Jesus Christ, which takes obedience and faith that He can help us succeed to do His will. Our will needs to be yielded to His will. We need to accept Jesus into our life as our Lord and Savior forever to receive God's blessing and forgiveness plus go to heaven. Having Jesus in your life means changing your life to accept His leadership -- thus He is your Lord, and not just your Savior. He wants to change us to be more like Him. The more we love God, the more we can commit and be obedient. I'm Lutheran and I like the Baptist churches too. Ways to stay on the project are going to church, reading the Bible daily, and daily prayer as needed. Some churches do a weekly Bible study group and these can be a good way to get committed to read the Bible often and keep going. Let God guide you. God bless.
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Lunet Lunet
Here are some support groups run by doctors where you can talk to others .... and a free basic healing method... and a suggestion to have your hormones balanced by specialists, since they caused many mental illnesses... Find your own family of love, and make a list of the things you want to do and accomplish in this life, and how you can do all that...
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Kaylee Kaylee
Hi Me, It sounds like you have a lot going through your mind, that is causing the depression and eating disorders. I just sent you an email, if you would like to talk, I would be happy to talk with you. Best of luck to you :-) Paul.
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Kaylee Originally Answered: Can a 15 year old expecting mother get like welfare even though shes not a single mother?
I would think it depends on which area you live in. I know for a fact that where I'm at teen mothers can get on welfare, if whoever they are staying with income qualifies. Since you don't work, they would take in consideration your parents income. It wouldn't hurt to go to your Human service department and ask. You could always get a part time job. My cousin got knocked up at 15 and that's what she did .Her sister got pregnant at 17 and she ended up working at Subway and ended up being the store manager after being there for 5 years. Welfare is for ALL needy mothers...regardless of age or marital status. Whoever said that you couldn't get welfare since you're underage is lying. We keep hearing teen moms bashed and the main reason is " that's where MY tax dollars are going". Tax dollars are also going to support low lifes in prison...but where's the complaining there.... I wouldn't be afraid to look into part time jobs at a fast food place or a store,etc. The boyfriend should definitely start putting in 30 applications a week. I would hit every gas station, fast food,etc in your town and anything within a 20 mile radius. He needs to be responsible and help support your baby. ETA: Why would ANYONE abort a 20 week baby....at that age you can feel them move around and stuff...it makes the pregnancy so much more "real". I would NEVER suggest someone to abort a living breathing little thing. There are other parasites that get our tax dollars... prison inmates...i knew a guy that said that prison life was great- free meals,etc. People need to get off their high horse when it comes to taxes. We get some of it back each year. Some of us don't pay in millions or more each year like some super super rich folk do. Also welfare isn't just for teen/young mothers, its for anyone that "qualfies". I know families that were never on it because they had well paying careers then they lost their jobs and ended up on public assistance. I also knew a guy that kept griping about where his tax dollars were going to welfare and he ended up loosing his well paid job and what do you, ended up getting some public assistance himself! Nothing is EVER guaranteed in this life. You can have it all then in a second LOOSE it ALL. People should never take anything for granted or bash people less fortunate then themselves...because who knows, in the future the roles could be reversed and the basher is the one that gets bashed for being on welfare...that's called KARMA.

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