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Is this a solid sign of cheating? PLEASE?

Is this a solid sign of cheating? PLEASE? Topic: All life is a problem solving
April 21, 2019 / By Joshawa
Question: I have been dating this guy for a year and a half. He is just wonderful, but the only problem is i have had several people come to me with accusations and i have had this unbearable gut feeling. First of all, when we first met it was instant chemistry, and he asked me out etc.. So about a week into the relationship many girls contacted me saying that they too were dating him and that he cheated on them with me. I confronted him about this, but he told the girls in front of me"you know we never even had a relationship." And at times he would get nervous like he wouldn't let me touch his cell phone unless he knew exactly what i was doing or use the computer for school reasons(even though i let him do whatever with mine). I noticed though that he had a LOT i mean a LOT of girl "friends" and he made me ditch all my friends(including the girls). so i was more than willing because he means a lot to me. Anyways, he wanted to further prevent me from talking to them he made me delete e mail contacts, I M, Face Book, My space (you know where i could talk to people i know). SO i do it willingly. I tell him well if i have to delete all those you have to do it too like it's not just a one way thing. so he tells me he CANT delete his my space because he doesn't know the password to his email and so we created a password so (if he really didn't know his password) It would be impossible for him to get in. A few months pass and people were telling me he was still logging in so a friend allowed me to see through her profile and he had pages and pages of pure GIRLS. but i disregarded it and decided not to confront him. but then he still logged in and getting comments like " ;] your so cute i miss your lips" stuff like that. So i wasn't going to be blind and i told him he said he swore he didnt know it that it must be somebody else knowing his password and i told him "that's is impossible" like he expected somebody besides himself to go add girls and send comments like that, plus I KNOW the way he writes over text and email so i told him i knew he was lying. He still is saying that he didn't do it and i gave him a second chance. But lately he has these outbursts of anger like we will be fighting for no reason and he is ALWAYS the instigator and now his friends tell me he used to be known as a "player". And sometimes i catch him getting weird texts like "meet me at the mall", and from that same girl "you know we were meant for each other and no matter what we will be together even if we aren't". So i made a fake profile to see if he would add it (since he deleted all my friends which makes it more suspicious that it is him) too see if he is still doing it. I know he tells me it isn't him logging in I am not stupid i can see right in front of my face. so my first question is, is it okay that i made the fake profile, it's not like crazy obsessive type, because i just want to use it as proof? And second were those solid signs of cheating?
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Hanoch Hanoch | 9 days ago
Oh my goodness the red flags and alarms are blaring. Cheater, scumbag, loser, creep, jerk, yeah. Just dump his sorry liar *** and problem solved. Why even bother with a jerk like him? Why? There is nothing there, nothing to lose. No character, nothing but a big organ with no thought for your feelings at all. Life is tough but it's even tougher when you're stupid. Don't be stupid with your life by allowing someone like that into it. Don't give him the opportunity to hurt you. Choose someone with the same values as yours.
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Hanoch Originally Answered: Is this a solid sign of cheating? PLEASE?
Oh my goodness the red flags and alarms are blaring. Cheater, scumbag, loser, creep, jerk, yeah. Just dump his sorry liar *** and problem solved. Why even bother with a jerk like him? Why? There is nothing there, nothing to lose. No character, nothing but a big organ with no thought for your feelings at all. Life is tough but it's even tougher when you're stupid. Don't be stupid with your life by allowing someone like that into it. Don't give him the opportunity to hurt you. Choose someone with the same values as yours.

Edwyn Edwyn
Well how much more proof do you want? It's obvious that he is being a cheater by getting text messages like that. He's a controlling douche and even IF there is a slight chance that he's not cheating, you should still move on and break it off with him. It's not fair that he made you stop contact with people and delete your myspace. If you want to create the account then go for it but you really should leave him now before you waste any more time of your life with him.
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Carbrey Carbrey
I read about 5 run-on sentences and get this from you: You believe in magical, mysterious things like "instant chemistry" and "gut feelings." Why don't we look at some solid evidence instead? In just a few sentences talking about just the beginning of your relationship, here's a more factual look at the way things went down. You met a new guy. Almost instantaneously (a week is a short time, not a long time, just clarifying that you see it that way too), you were overwhelmed by drama, drama, drama, drama, and more drama. Rather than take this as a sign that this guy was more trouble than he could possibly be worth, you stuck around long enough to now have what looks like twenty-plus additional run-on sentences of problems. Just leave. And in the future, realize that relationships are not about mystical, magical connections. They're about both parties choosing-- yes, choosing-- to love the other above themselves. Cheers to a happier future for you with smoother decisions based on fact!
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Alix Alix
He's a player.He made you delete all your social networking profiles so none of his side girls could get in touch with you if something went wrong between him and them,also so you can't see what he's doing online.Everything else you're saying tells me he's a cheater,and it's very obvious by the texts he's getting and what other girls told you.You seem to want to be in denial.Wise up and move on,he's a total douchebag and you can do better.LEAVE HIM.
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Tanzi Tanzi
Growing up I was friends with this guy and girl. The guy was cheating on her and she was a virgin. She tells me that she is going to lose her virginity to him. I tell her not too, because I know his a player, but his my friend. She later finds out after she lost her virginity. Now you have warning signs that his cheating and his friends are being nice by letting you know he used to be a cheater. You also state that he has you delete all your friends, and it's only one sided. You are a girl who has given up a lot and for what? A bunch of lies and BS? Move on, you know and I hope believe you deserve more esp. one who respects you.
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Rina Rina
Of course he is cheating. I would like to know with all the proof that you have why would you even make a fake profile. You know he is cheating and that he will continue to lie and cheat, but you have gotten rid of all your friends and played right into his controlling hands. Time to wise up and hit the road to find someone that really cares.
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Miranda Miranda
He is a liar and a cheat....and he made you delete all of your friends and contacts because he is a controlling b*stard who is insecure of your actions because of his own inappropriate behavior. Why are you asking us if you have enough proof? That tells me that you don't have the self esteem to leave him over this. If you question yourself and your instincts you will let this @ss lie, manipulate and hurt you for ever.
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Lily Lily
Scorpio, Virgo, Taurus, Capricorn It's very hard to say... cos everyone can hide and lie about things.. but those are probli the most loyal honest signs.
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