Someone please give me some advice?
Topic: Throw out to use take in when done with your homework
June 16, 2019 / By Zavanna Question:
my dad is driving me ******* mad, i seriously cannot take his crap anymore. its not just that stupid "teen thing" that retarded parents make up so that they dont have to change the way they treat their kids, its literally how he acts around me. so, im doing my homework (and i have a shitload) and he comes into the room (we have a "family" room with a computer and a couch with a tv) and he sits down and goes "ahhh" like a ******* old man that hasnt sat down in days, and i dont know about you, but i cannot work wen someone is in the room, even if they're quiet. so hes sighing and moving around on the couch drinking his tea in the noisest way possible and i cannot work. for real. every time im about to type a sentence for my report he slurps his drink. and i was like "dad i cant really work when someone is in here so could you please sit some where else" and i said it very politely and he was like "fine, then dont work" and i said "i have a lot of work to do and if youre in here i cant do it." and he just keeps saying the same thing over and over again and then i say (a llittle bit angrily) "dad! this is the only place i can work and its not the only place you can sit, so i rlly need you to leave" and then he says "fine then dont work" again!!!! and then says "if youre going to be a brat then im going to send you upstairs" he finally left after an hour of me telling him to leave me alone and him threatening to throw me out of the room. he such a ******* hypocrite i cant take it any longer. here hes telling me not to my work so he can sit and drink a ******* cup of tea that he can drink anywhere else, yet hes always telling me to work harder in school even though i get straight A's and im trying as hard as i can. ughhhhh hes sooooo annoying!! SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!!! im going to go ******* mad.
my mom completely ignores what he does and acutually agrees with him. :(
my mom completely ignores what he does and actually agrees with him. :(
Best Answers: Someone please give me some advice?
Shelena | 3 days ago
That sounds just like my sister. I'll be on the computer trying to work, and she'll come down and start singing or screwing around. I agree, it's impossible to work if someone's in the room with you, especially if they're being annoying. I honestly don't think you're gonna win by talking with him because he sounds pretty immature, so here are some other things you could try:
-Get an MP3 or Ipod so you can listen to that instead of the annoying things your dad's doing. You'll probably still be able to work, and it will be a lot less irritating.
-Talk with your mom and set up a rule where no one can be in the living room if you're trying to work on something.
-This is expensive, but another option is buying a laptop for your room so you don't have to use the computer in the family room.
-Or just do your homework in ur room unless you really need the computer.
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How to move on from your ex:
Remove Old Photos: Make sure there are no photos of you and your ex lying around the house. You could be having a great day and then all of a sudden go into a drawer and find a photo of the two of you hugging in a swimming pool. While you may not have gotten sunburned at the pool, you might have gotten burned by your ex and you don't need to be reminded of it. Pack up all of the photos and put them in a box far away from any place you could stumble upon it. Save cell phone pictures to a folder in a location you never or rarely go to.
Go New Places: Going to the same restaurants, cafés and coffee shops that you went to with your ex should be off your radar. It's best to find new places with new faces. Don't go into places where they know you as a couple when you want the world to now know you as a single person.
Remove Cell Phone Reminders: Delete any old voicemail messages or texts from your ex. That birthday text message your former partner sent you last year might have been cute then, but if you stumble upon it now it loses its luster. Clear out your inbox and make room for all the new messages and possibilities.
Select New Music: Don't listen to songs that remind you of your ex. There's nothing like making an effort to put your ex out of your mind and then the song that played when you started dating starts up on your iPod. Clear the decks and make a new playlist.
Login to Your New Life: The Internet probably contains many reminders of your ex. Your Facebook may need the biggest clean-up. Head in there and delete any photos with both of you together. Also, the friends that went over to your ex's side of the fence once the split happened should be unfriended immediately.
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First of all don't curse its just annoying to read especially in your situation. Your dad did not mean to disturb you and he just wants to rest? Why do you let such little things disturb you. Manage to cope with the situation and don't let it get you angry to the point where you will hate him -.-. In the future, you will appreciate your dad for everything he has done for you. Parents always tell their kids to do well in school even if they know they are trying their best. They just want you to go to college and have a great life instead of working in some low paying restaurant..*cough cough McDonald's...
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You need to come to terms that it's a family room, not your own private room. Your dad has just as much right to be there as you do. I suggest you turn on some music for background noise so his activities don't disturb you so much.
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Sweetheart you need to calm down. Think about it your parents work to pay the bills and provide for you. You shouldn't treat them that way even if it is the only place you can do your school work.
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your dad is acting like my 12 year old bratty sister. someone should tell him to grow up. haha, you should like prank him or something to get back, that'd be funny :)
sorrry don't have any suggestions right now, i'll post again if i do. :)
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Forget getting into more debt for education if you're not sure about what you want to do. Find a job now to pay the bills and you'll figure out what you want to be when you grow up along the way. It takes some of us a while to figure it out - I was 25 before I went back to college. You're spending hours a day researching careers online... start applying for jobs. Find retail stores and/or restaurants and go apply in person.