Originally Answered: Restraining order placed by parents of 16 year old girl against 18 year old boyfriend?
Your only young once, please enjoy it and have good memories of it. Your parents have, for their reasons made a stand on this boyfriend. They don't want him around you. I bet they have reasons. It can't be he turned 18 and a half. You wrote he cheated on you or something like that. The hotel room was the trigger, I guess. Their support was removed from your relationship. They care about you more than any dopey boyfriend ever will.
They can protect you from him by court order. It may be hard to understand now, but you have so much ahead of you that is so much more important than one dopey guy.
If you love him so much, you'll surely die without him. Talk to your parents about it. Is trusting their judgement is too much to ask ? Be sure he'll go to jail for continuing to see you.
By ignoring a restraining order, he is ignoring a judges demand. The judge didn't sign a restraining request. The judge ordered it, and will not think twice as your boyfriend gets tossed in prison. It's important to understand how judges think. They are in an important job that makes important decisions every day. They can take someones kids away or someones life away. They get real mad over stupid stuff like ignoring their restraining orders. If your boy gets caught he isn't going to just let him go. He is going to throw the book at him. The judge will say things like, "You ignored a simple direction from this court, I wish I had time to tell you how stupid that was. But your done wasting my time,remanded to jail, full sentence, next case, good bye dumb a$$." No jury, no trail, just jail.
I watched this happen, when I was a teen. The girl was 16, the guy was 18 or 19. Her guardian got a restraining order against him and the two kept seeing each other. He got 18 months in jail.
The funny part was, they got married after he got out of jail. It lasted less than a year, because she ran off with one of his friends.They just took off one day together, without even saying good bye to the jail bird. I heard they went to Alaska.
I'm sorry but I still think that's a funny story. He knew it would happen, but did it any way. she was a bad girl and seeing him and marrying him was being bad. staying married was being good, so running off was more her style.