Problem with parents?
Topic: How to write a gift letter for money
July 18, 2019 / By Angel Question:
I can't stand my parents and they don't like me either.Every time I go in the same room as them they quickly shoo me out and completely ignore me.They clearly love my 8 year old sister more than me because they always spoil her with gifts,money,and special privileges.I have the worst problem with my dad.He treats me as if I'm not his daughter and more of a tool to yell at and get his anger out.They yell at me for staying in my room 24/7,but when I come out they send me back in.There's more but just thinking of them all brings me to tears.They treat me like I'm nothing by yelling at me constantly and not considering my feelings.
I've considered suicide,but decided not to because I have friends and grandparents that love me more than my parents ever will.I'm 15 and on brink of depression.I used to cut and stopped a few months ago,but I'm starting to again.
I just don't know what to do!
One solution I came up with is to completely ignore them and never give them more than a nod of the head when I see them.And I'll only speak to them if necessary.
How can I fix the relationship between my parents and me?
Best Answers: Problem with parents?
Wilford | 8 days ago
I am so sorry that this is happening to you. Your parents should be ashamed for making you feel this way. What you can do to help fix this is to write them a letter like this one, telling them how you feel. This way, they can't argue or interrupt your thoughts.
I really hope this thing work out for you. Best wishes!
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Originally Answered: Problem with parents?
Yes this is the disadvantages of modern technology, my son is also addicted on his Playstation and I said you love more your PSP than me, then he get angry when I say that. Same to you just be prank to your parents, while they are busy with their IPads say you love more your IPads than me, can you help me for this homework or this and that, like this they will realize their fault.
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they should be more adult and be responsible to take time from themslefes. It could be a lot worse so try to appericate what you have and its just the games or movies sinking them in which is a healthy habit compared to others.
Btw you sound like a grown experienced adult that can handle these things just my your presention of your question . You should talk to your parents about the neglect your feeling.. your act out like any teen and that will get there attention ..the first one is the best way..
Please, for your sake, stop the cutting. It only does harm. Limiting your contact and your speaking with them is a short-term solution. It may work for awhile. It sounds like they have problems of their own and it is almost impossible for anyone to fix other people. Your relationship may never be what you dream of.
Is there a trusted teacher, aunt, adult friend , or pastor you can talk to about this situation? This could really help you come to grips with this. You are a precious, one-of-a-kind person, with much to live for. Please find someone to walk with you through this.
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U GOT TO UNDERSTAND THAT YOUR SISTER IS 8 AND UR 15 C'MON OF COURSE THEY WILL SPOIL HER LOL.. WOULDNT U WANT TO BE THE ONE SPOILED IF U WERE 8???? DONT WORRY TALK 2 YOUR PARENTS MAYBE THEY DONT KNOW THAT YOU FEEL LONELY...OR UNLOVED.. TRUST ME JUST LET THEM KNOW HOW U FEELINGS AND IT MIGHT WORK.. BY THE WAY DONT DO SOMETHING STUPID ..
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Originally Answered: Does any other teenager have this problem with their parents?
Aw, Im sorry :( Im sure your parents dont mean to make you feel that way. I think its fairly common for parents to focus all their attention on the "problem child" instead of the good one, because they figure that you dont need them there holding your hand.
I would definitely talk about it with your parents. Sit them both down in a room away from your brother or sometime when your brother is not home and tell them you need to have a serious conversation. As the other poster said, use "I" sentences so they dont feel that you are accusing them of things and get defencive. Like I said, Im sure they dont MEAN to make you feel the way you do. Try setting up your sentences like this: I feel ____, when you ____. I wish you would ______.
Good luck :)