Can you subconsciously love someone?
Topic: Love the sister reality show
April 21, 2019 / By Beta Question:
My point is that you already have someone you love in reality (you could even be in a relationship), but something is pulling towards another person and you don't know what that is (the person is from the opposite gender). For example: a guy is in a relationship with a girl and he loves her, but he also enjoys the company of another girl (lets say a very close friend of his), he enjoys it to the point where he can't last 2 days without calling his friend (his female friend) and wants to spend time with her for very long periods of time. Can this be marked as subconscious love? Even if we change the genders (a girl is in a relationship and she has a guy friend she can't stop hanging out with), is this considered subconscious love? Does the guy and girl from the example subconsciously love their friend from the opposite gender? But they suppress those emotions because they're already in a relationship with somebody? And might finally show their feelings after they are no longer in a relationship?
This has been something that has gotten my attention for quite some time. Please analyse and give me a good answer, whether its yes or no and why...
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Agatha | 9 days ago
I think there are varying degrees of love, which is why the Greek language has so many words for the concept of "love." I don't think it's subconscious though. If it was subconscious then there wouldn't necessarily be enough evidence to prove that there was any "love" at all (for instance, in your example, you said a guy may "need" to call that friend-that-is-a-girl-but-not-his-girlfr... since he feels the need to call her, I'm sure he would consciously recognize that he has some sort of attachment to that girl). But this (conscious, in my opinion) love is not neccessarily (if not most likely) the same love that a man may feel for his girlfriend. He may feel protective attachment towards the friend-girl and love her as strongly as he would a sister, but at the same time may feel more romantic and/or sexual love for the girl whom he is in a relationship with. That is not to say that the protective, sibling-like love cannot develop into the more intense romantic/sexual love. That transition depends on the people involved -- one may deter the other from falling deeper into love with them for the protection of their friendship, or may let time pass (it may take years for the love to transition) while the love between the two grows and becomes more complex, in which case their love for each other might be eventually realized.
All my opinion, but there aren't really any concrete facts to be said about human emotions and relationships, because every person is different. Hope my perspective helps!
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Yes I believe that you can love someone but have repressed feelings and not confront them. Because of the fact that you're already on a relationship, or you're scared that it will mess up the friendship you have with them. But I think if you're in a relationship, yet you still care about the other person so much, then maybe you're really meant to be with them. But we can also care and love for many people even of opposite genders.
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