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Christians have any advice? What do I do? Need some encouragement?

Christians have any advice? What do I do? Need some encouragement? Topic: Whose side are you on anyway case study
July 17, 2019 / By Caylin
Question: Sorry I know I posted this question already but no one really answered. I am a Christian and I am going through a hard time right now. Me and my friend of 12 years just stopped being friends. It's a long story but she has changed a lot and I tried to make it work but it just couldn't. It's really hard for me because I loved her as a friend and 12 years is a long time to be friends with someone. I don't really have any other friends and I feel so alone. I know Jesus is here for me but sometimes he just feels so distant and I feel like I am alone. I want a real friend and someone to be there for me no matter what. I haven't found that yet and sometimes I think that I never will. Anyways could this be God's will that we stopped being friends? Does Jesus care and feel my pain? =(
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Originally Answered: I need some advice from strong, Christ led Christians please. I am having a very hard time understanding my?
Tell the kids the truth; daddy's got a serious problem, and needs help that he won't accept, which is why he acts the way he does. I really think you need to either leave or make him do so. See a counselor yourself without him to work out your best options; the counselor should be able to help you with your children's issues as well. Along with that, when you're ready, see a lawyer about your legal options. I'd only involve the police if he got violent and you feared for your own or your children's safety. If you were my coffee buddy, I'd be wanting you to get out of a bad situation that is only going to cause you more pain and fear. It certainly can't be worse for the kids than what's already happening.
Originally Answered: I need some advice from strong, Christ led Christians please. I am having a very hard time understanding my?
Personally I would first tell him to check his tone ! You are there wanting to know how things are going and he's blowing steam off on you because he cant get something right someplace else. His confidence in himself is shot right now. If you truly want to work it out and feel that your marriage is worth saving then have him read a few of these answers as therapy. And when he gets to mine he will love the next part. Dude wake up and get your act together, She cares why dont YOU? If you care then why are you acting like a 14 year old that has no clue about emotions?? Grow up and be a man and talk it over, work it out or just go away. Dont be mad at her because your making mistakes else where in your life and cant get it right. Its not her fault so stop treating her like a door mat and get your head out of your 4th point of contact (@ss ) and apologize before you loose your family !!! As for you ma'am I would say that if hes unwilling to help in any of these areas I would start looking for a place to go, with the kids, till he gets the idea that what ever is bugging him so dang bad isnt your family. I am sorry for your trouble's and I will pray for your family. God Bless

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